wen life gets boring…i’ll write ne’thin that comes into my mind…hurmm…L.O.V.E…it will easily hurts u!!trust me!!
hey guyz..how do you know when u’ve found your soulmate?i mean..someone u feel like u want to love them for the rest of your life..One of the most common questions we get asked is “How do you know if it
is really love?” Well, as you can imagine, this also happens to be one of
the most difficult questions to answer! Love is such a strange, wonderful thing
that nobody really has codified what it is yet. And to further complicate
matters, there are so many different kinds of love: the love you feel for a
friend, a family member, a sport or even a pet. This is such a crazy emotion…
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start
would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that
question is no, then it really can’t be love. When you love someone, you want
to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You
have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful
thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in
their company, just being close to them isn’t enough, you want to be a part of
them, a part of their life forever. You can’t stand the thought of being away
from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties
you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You
feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and
think what they are thinking. It is almost as if you both can occupy each
other’s bodies with complete trust and harmony. That to me is love.
There are a host of emotions that people confuse with love. One of the most
common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and
wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some
people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are
afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much
that they don’t know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be
with someone than no-one.
This leads to the old cliché, in order to love someone else, you must first
learn to love yourself. Well, we’ve all heard that before, but what does it
really mean? It means that you have to be confident in your own ability and
your own judgement. You really have to like yourself and know what you have to
offer another person. There is no way that you can love another person if you
are so stuck in your own hang-ups that you bow down and propitiate to the other
person. That is, you do anything they ask and agree with everything they say
out of fear that they will love you less because you don’t do those things.
Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is
pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren’t… and deep down, you know the
answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
~i’m in love~
